Before I came to see Heidi, I was in a place of frustration with myself. If something was off in the home, I felt like everything was out of whack. Even before I had kids, I knew I wanted to change generational patterns and create a different environment in the home for my own children. My husband and I were both aligned on that goal. However, as a mother of six children, I found myself unable to achieve it.
I realized I was acting in irrational ways, but I didn’t know how to stop it. I had tried multiple spiritual exercises. I tried praying my way through the emotions and consciously surrendering it. It finally took physically injuring myself during an emotional outburst to get me to reach out for help. That’s when I knew something needed to change on a deeper level.
While I originally called Heidi for support for one of my children who was experiencing emotional turbulence, Heidi convinced me to start with a session for myself. After the session, I now completely understand that none of my actions were intentional. They were built up from years and years of stuff that was unknown to my conscious mind.
I’m filled with hope and optimism about our family's future. I'm so grateful I took the leap of faith to have a mindset coaching session.
I’m no longer controlled by the emotional response to things that had previously happened. My husband noted that I have more joy. I noticed that I can now be present with my children when they are experiencing big emotions. I’m not getting drawn into it with them. Now I can sit and be present with them. I understand them, leaving them feeling heard and supported. I didn’t even know that was possible for me, especially in the midst of a stressful moment.
Not only did Heidi guide me to clear the emotional response to all the stuff that’s happened, but I also left with amazing tools that have already proven to be blessings to us. Tools we have actually been able to implement into our daily lives and interactions.
There’s been a complete shift in my family because there was a shift in me. Previously there was tension, competitiveness, and heightened emotions, where people felt anxious. Now, we are calmer and more respectful. We are a big family, so there is craziness, but the environment in totally different.
My mission, as a mother, has always been to minister to the heart of my children and guide them gently and lovingly. Now I see that I am able to actually make it happen. Even though we are in the early stages of using these tools, my kids are using them and it has increased their emotional intelligence making them more capable of processing situations with a clearer heart and mind.
I’m filled with hope and optimism about our family’s future. I’m so grateful I took the leap of faith to have a mindset coaching session.
